Date outside your “type"


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JamesBk

Posted: 9/13/2021
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Gay men, more so than straight men, love to have types or “preferences.” Now there’s nothing wrong with typically being more attracted to guys who look or present a certain way. That’s fine. I will say though, don’t rule out a whole group of people because they don’t fit what you’re customarily attracted to. Be open to all different types of guys. This widens your options greatly.

Guys have met through Grindr. They have dated, and even gotten married. This does actually happen. But Grindr still is primarily used for more casual encounters. So to only use Grindr while looking for a boyfriend isn’t necessarily the wisest move. Try Tinder, OkCupid, or other apps that have guys looking for more serious relationships.

When my brother first recommended this to me, I thought it was ridiculous. But then I tried it, and I was shook by how successfully it worked. If you meet a guy online, been talking a little bit, and have decided to meet up, Facetime him first. This way, you avoid having that frustrating situation of getting all dressed up, excited, commuting to wherever you’re meeting, only to realize within seconds you have absolutely no attraction to him. A brief, playful Facetime can help you avoid this situation entirely. In my opinion, it’s much better to have an awkward, five-minute conversation over the phone, than an awkward, hour-long date in person. Also, if the Facetime goes well, it gets you even more excited about meeting IRL!
 
Manson

Posted: 9/15/2021
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This could actually be a problem. I was a teenager when I realized that I liked guys. And I cannot say about it because I was afraid of misunderstanding. This happens a lot. I got more freedom when I went to university. I found out about such a site - https://www.gaysgodating.com/gay/black-chat.html This is how my first romantic acquaintance began. Everything was wonderful then)
 
Sam jonson

Posted: 10/6/2021
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For gay and bi men, it often feels like dating is futile. The men you like never seem to like you back. Or they’re only looking for something casual. Or they play games. Or they never put you and your feelings into consideration when making decisions. Or they’re just…terrible…ya know? So dating is often a pain in the ass for queer men. That said, here are some helpful tidbits of dating advice for guys who want to make the whole dating process just a tad bit less painful.
 
Kelley Wheeler

Posted: 10/13/2021
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